What's with Ashley Madison

I see this site mentioned a lot and forgive my ignorance, but how in the hell does one have an affair using a site like this. They claim all rights to your material, including your picture, and reserve the right to use your material as they wish. So your picture could end up in a lot of places. Who would put a face shot on such a site if they were trying to be discreet. And then they charge a (Large) fee for their services. Would I not be holding up a sign for my wife if I went out and used my credit card for this site. Or wrote a check. Aren't affairs supposed be done secretly and aren't you supposed to leave no trial.

I don't even know how people get away with text messaging and sending pictures back and forth on their phones. Can you say Tiger Woods? Secret and maybe even anonymous email seems the only safe way to communicate, and even then you better clean you cashes, cookies and temporary internet files. Thank God for the incognito window in Google's browser.

Call me a novice and an inexperienced, likely to someday be a cheating husband. But some of this seems like we might as well slap the Idiots Guide to Having an Affair on the coffee table while we tell our spouses that we love them and they are the only one for us.

Now the site might work great, once you have secretly set up your own bank account, found a place to hide that checkbook or credit card and explained why your paycheck is short every month or so. I want it to work, because Craigslist is useless!!!

I want to hear from anyone that is married and uses the site for their secret affairs. How do you do it? Any luck? Really!?!?